PoPuLaR GiRlS ...

Never:
 
~show off their looks,talents,or possessions.
~allow boys to get 'fresh' with them.
~gossip or say spiteful things about others.
~tease or mock other girls.

ArE YoU A poPuLaR GiRl?? YoU Can Be, By DoInG WhAt PoPuLaR GiRlS Do!!

popular girls:

~ Are respectful and polite to everyone.
~ Put themselves in others' shoes and think of the feelings of others first.
~ Are generous withh their time and talents.
~ Are cheerful and outgoing.

iT'S aLL AbOuT EmPhaTy

Identifying with otjer people's feelings, and seeing things from their point of view. Popular people 'connect' with others' feelings, making them believe that they're not one of them'. They just don't nod understandingly when others tell them their problems - they really try to imagine how they themselves would feel or react in the same situation. By making yourself more emphatic to thhe feelings of others, they will feel more 'connected' to you, and your likeabality- and popularity - will increase astronomically!!

so get busy emphatizing!!

Do NoT Be SuRpRiSed!

Do not be surprised if a few acquaintances resent your new-found confidence, and attempt to undermine yor efforts at self-growth.

They are absolutely envious and perhaps concerned about their own social status in light of your meteoric rise to popularity. Do your best to soothe their fears and let old friends know they will always be important to you- as important to you as your new friends!

PeRsOnAliTy

Now that your wardrobe needs have been taken care of, it's time to work on your personality.
Are you outgoing?? A 'people' person?
If not, you CAN become one!

HOW??

~ By enrolling in clubs and activities for which you fee enthusiastic.

~ People are drawn to those who have the ability to make them feel excited- whether about a car wash, a weenie roast or a sock hop!

~ So sign up now for as many school social activities as you can fit into your schedule...then show your school spirit!

~ Enthusiasm is contagious, and soon YOU will be too!

WaiT!

Your hair and wardrobe may be perfect, but your makeover's not complete without this:

The one thing you can wear this or any seoson that's always going to be in style and look great in confidence.
  
              Having confidence in yourself is the one accessory no one can afford to leave at home.

              Peope are naturally drawn to leaders, and leaders are those who have confidence in themselves.


        

ExAmInE ThOsE In YoUr SoCiaL CiRcLe WhO ArE mOrE PoPuLaR ThAn OtHeRs.

Study them.

~ See where they go.

~ Observe what they do and how they behave.

~ Analyse what they wear.

~ Listen to what they talk about.

These people are your 'role models' without 'copying them' (no one likes a copycat!) try to be more like them. =)